Tuesday, May 23, 2006

The Only One Reason Why You Are Stressed

You are stressed not because you are stupid, bad luck, facing debt, or can’t manage your time; you are stressed because you made the wrong decision!

You probably think that I mean because you made wrong decision that lead you to lost a lot of money, spend too much of money, can’t finish your job on time, can’t manage your relationship in a good manner, or …. and as the results, you are stressed.

No, that is not the “wrong” decision!

Losing a lot of money could be a good thing, when you lose money because of gambling, you learn a lesson! When you spend too much of money, that means you have the money or the credit to spend! If you can’t finish your job in time, at least you still have a job! And, if you break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, that means you now have the chance to meet a better person!

The biggest mistake you have done is you made the decision to get yourself stressed!

Can’t get it, right? A lot of people find it difficult to understand, not because they can’t, it is because they don’t allow themselves to.

If you have an open-mind, then you would see things in a whole different perspective.

Ask yourself a question, if you haven’t drink a drop of water for the past 3 days, and I put a glass of water in front of you. I am your boss, and I tell you if you drink the water, you will get fired! Or, I am your boy/girlfriend, if you drink the water, I will break up with you.

What would you do? Will you drink the water to save yourself? What is your answer?

You don’t have to answer me, answer it to yourself.

Another question, who made the decision to make you feel stressed? You!

Can you make a decision to Not to be stressed?

The moment you decided that you do not deserve to be under stress, you are out of it.

It is as simple and as easy as it can get.

Sometimes, things that are easy to be done are so easy to not be done also.

Just have to remember, stress problem is a mental illness, and thus, it is important to treat the illness with mental tactics, and most importantly, it has to be cure by you.

The Mind Is The Limit

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